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- It's okay to not like people. Even if that means family and friends. You don't have to like everyone. Even if it is your mom or dad. Especially if you encounter negativity or get abused or neglected by these people. It's okay to say, hey we are not meant to be in eachother's lives. Let's take a break from this relationship. And mean it. Move on, and take a much needed break.
- Not everyone has your best interests at heart. Not everyone wants the best for you and some are willing to take what you have to ensure that they have the best. Learn to look out for your own self interests. And protect your self interests. What is important to you is important for a reason. Honor what is important to you above all else.
- Learn to say NO. No is a helpful word. If we did not utilize the word no, people would be saying yes to everything and greatly overextending themselves. Learn the value in the word NO. Learn to use it at the right time and for the right reasons. Yes may be necessary at times. Just as NO is necessary at other times. Use both words accordingly.
- Learn to have fun, whatever is fun to you. Everyone has a different idea of fun. Some like high impact sports, others like yoga. Some like to go running and others like nature walks. Just whatever inspires your soul, whatever brings you peace, whatever brings moments of happiness, do that. And do it often.
- Learning that I really don't know anything about life. In your teens and twenties, you think you know so much, if not everything. And as you hit your thirties and forties, you realize, you don't know as much as you thought you did, if anything at all. What do we really know as fact? We only know scientific research and what is seen with the visible eye. But there are things that we do not know or understand and our awareness can always be expanded to consider this side of life, too.
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